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Humans are poor data gathering
machines. We have numerous biases, cognitive flaws, and psychological errors
that prevent our unguided minds from grasping reality in any accurate way.
To put it more
specifically:
[There are] two countervailing
human tendencies of omission and commission: to neglect the logical and
statistical strategies of science on the one hand, and to over-utilize
intuitive or simplistic strategies on the other
Thus, in order to deal
with the deluge of information that our brains take in every second of everyday,
we have to structure it in a way that can accurately interpret, explain, and
predict reality. Science can do this where other forms of thinking fail.
Gut-feelings and common sense are not enough; they may get us somewhere, but
not always to the truth.
As we proceed, I will
outline how one thinks scientifically (and unscientifically) in order to show
you how modern science obtains knowledge about the universe. More importantly,
as we continue, we should know why thinking in a scientific way is
the best vehicle for obtaining knowledge.
To that end, let us
outline what are the unscientific ways of thinking and why we cannot rely on
them.
Unscientific Sources of
Knowledge
INTUITION
By intuition we mean
vague feelings or gut reactions about a question or phenomena. One problem with
intuition as a knowledge source is that our intuitions are often wrong. For
example, we may have a gut reaction that giving children sugar will make them
more hyperactive. However, if we scientifically interpret the data, we find that
this is not that case.
A second problem arises
because intuitions are feeling-based. Mood, and a host of other psychological
and physiological factors influence intuition. A judgment of information may be
solely based on how you rolled out of bed this morning, and not what the data
says. An “intuitive” judgment about the driving skills of another motorist will
differ greatly if that motorist just cut you off.
Finally, ask five
different people to make predictions based on intuition and we are likely to receive
five different answers. We simply cannot place enough confidence in intuition
to accept it as a source of information.
TENACITY
This second source of
unscientific information, know also as tradition, includes unquestioned belief
in superstitions, truisms, and myths. These forms of knowledge are often passed
from generation to generation through cultural mechanisms such as family,
media, and religious institutions. As an information source, tradition is used
all the time. Like intuition however, many tenaciously held beliefs are
inaccurate.
For example, at one time
everyone held tenaciously to the beliefs that the Earth was flat; that the Sun
revolved around the Earth; that applying leeches to the ill was good medical
practice; and that Salem, Massachusetts was plagued with witches.
Scientific breakthroughs
in medicine, physics, and genetics, to name a few disciplines, continually
expose the erroneous nature of previously held beliefs. Moreover, across and within
cultures there is considerable variance in perspectives: What seems obvious to
one social group is often rejected as ludicrous by another.
Tenacity, like
intuition, is an unacceptable way to answer scientific questions.
COMMON SENSE
Common sense, a third
unscientific way of knowing, consists of generating what appear to be obvious
answers to scientific questions. Appeals to this sort of knowledge are
accompanied by prefacing or supporting remarks such as “it’s obvious that…,”
“everybody knows…,” “any halfway intelligent person can see that…,” or “it’s
just common sense.”
Common sense, however,
is often wrong and people often disagree what even constitutes the common sense
thing to do in a particular situation. Furthermore, scientific problems abound
for which common sense provides no insight. This is especially true for complex
problems.
For example, what is the
commonsense way to search for the Higgs Boson? What is the commonsense way to
treat pancreatic cancer? There are no existing commonsense answers to such
questions.
PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
Personal experience is
often used as a knowledge source. We posses a wealth of personal experience
and, while experience is an extremely valuable resource, there are three
reasons to be cautious about deriving knowledge claims about science based on
experiences.
First, personal
experience is both subjective and uncontrolled, leaving us
susceptible to misperception and misrepresentation of events. We are limited in
the amount of information we can process because the quantity of stimuli in any
given situation is virtually unlimited. Because of this limitation, we often
attend to events and stimuli selectively: We simply do not and can’t pay
attention to every sound; we don’t notice everything there is to see; many
things go undetected. Rather, we attend to some stimuli and block out others,
some of what we do sense, we sense incorrectly, yielding an experience that is
necessarily incomplete and inaccurate.
Second, we selectively
remember characteristics of experience. Anyone who has every studied for a test
realizes that some of the subject matter, although we read it and perhaps even
hear it during class, was somehow lost on test day. Thus, our memories of
events are usually incomplete and misrepresent events. It is also problematic
that our selectivity is driven by strong preconceptions. Meaning we attend,
perceive, accept, and recall data that confirm our beliefs and attitudes
whereas we tend to ignore, distort, discount, and forget data which disconfirm
our beliefs and attitudes. This is the confirmation bias at work.
AUTHORITY
A fifth unscientific
source of knowledge, authority, consists of appealing to experts for answers to
our questions. We are surrounded by experts and authorities: professors, physicians,
attorneys, journalists, economic advisers, stock brokers, mechanics, news
anchors, just to name a few. Although experts frequently provide valuable
service, there is often disagreement among them, and, of course, they can be
wrong.
The more important issue
is how the experts gained their knowledge in the first place. If their
knowledge was acquired through intuition, tenacity, or experience, it is
subject to many of the caveats already mentioned.
Assuming that an
expert’s knowledge is the product of scientific inquiry, it is the scientific
inquiry, not the expert, that is the source of the knowledge. Well-informed
experts can disseminate knowledge but they are not acceptable as oracles of it.
RATIONALISM
A final unscientific of
deriving answers is through rationalism, or logic, usually in the form of
deduction. Accordingly, knowledge takes the form of conclusions, which are
deduced from premises. For example, suppose that (1) watching a scary movie
usually makes a person fearful or anxious, and that (2) being fearful or
anxious usually causes the person’s heart rate to increase. Applying logic we
would conclude, therefore, that watching a scary movie raises a person’s heart
rate.
Two major problems are
associated with rationalism as a source of knowledge. First, we must consider
how the truth of the premises were determined. Logic alone cannot produce
premises, and without valid premises, sound conclusions cannot be reached.
Second if we apply logic in this form to premises that are not absolutely true,
erroneous conclusions will be met even when strictly following the rules of
deduction.
Reconsider our example.
Suppose that when we said “usually” we meant around 70 percent of the time.
Thus, the probability of a scary movie making you fearful is 70 percent and the
probability of being fearful increasing your heart rate is 70 percent. What
then is the probability that watching a scary movie increases your heart rate?
The correct answer is calculated by multiplying the two probabilities together
,[.70x.70], which equals only 49 percent. So, more often than not, watching a
scary movie would not increase your heart rate, given the probabilities we
assumed.
Logic itself does not
provide these crucial probabilities estimates; nor does it produce the
premises. As humans who arevery bad at estimating probabilities,
relying on pure logic will not get us as far as science can. While logic is an
essential tool used by scientists, it alone is insufficient as a knowledge
source because its use requires existing knowledge in the form of premises. If
the premises are incorrect, so is your logic.
Thinking Scientifically
As we can see from this
brief overview of the unscientific sources of knowledge, we need a more precise
and objective approach to generating knowledge. This leads us to the scientific
perspective of knowledge acquisition.
Regardless of the field
of study, those committed to a scientific approach to generating answers to
questions, whether theoretical or practical in nature, can almost always be
described in terms of a five-step process known as thescientific method.
We will quickly review the steps with special focus on how they differ from
unscientific ways of gaining knowledge. The steps are:
Observe a phenomena that needs
to be explained
Construct provisional
explanations or pose hypotheses
Design an adequate test of the
hypotheses
Execute the test
Accept, reject, or modify our
hypotheses based on the outcome of our test
CURIOSITY
The first step describes
a basic characteristic of scientific thinking,curiosity. We notice that
an object let go on Earth always falls straight down. We see that some planets
are made almost entirely of gas. We wonder why some animals take care of their
young and others do not. When we focus on such observations and feel compelled
to explain them, we have engaged in the first step of the scientific method.
CONCEPTUALIZING
It is at this second
step that we begin to differentiate scientific from unscientific thinking. Not
having found an explanation for a phenomena, a scientist looks for clues in
existing research. Under a scientific framework, input from intuition,
tradition, experience, common sense, experts, and logic might be incorporated
during the construction of a preliminary hypothesis, but we do not at this
point accept the validity of those explanations. These unscientific
explanations may be correct, but we cannot be sure if we do not test them.
Scientific thinking
builds upon the previous thinking of previous scientists, thus ensuring the
maintenance of objectivity separate from unscientific forms of knowing.
DESIGNING AND EXECUTING THE TEST
Another feature of the
scientific method is the testing of hypotheses that take care to control for
all of the possible variables that might confuse the research. Scientists must
rule out all competing explanations if they are to show that their explanation
is the correct one. Unscientific thinking leaves many possible explanations up
for debate, and rarely settles on the truth (or tests for the explanation’s
validity).
With all of the possible
confusing variables controlled for, the scientist carries out the experiment.
If the experiment was designed correctly and carried out in the right way, the
scientist should receive objective data about the phenomenon in question.
Just how a scientist
carries out a “correct” experiment is a much larger subject, and will not be
discussed here. Suffice to say that all scientific research depends on
scientists following common experimental rules and procedures to make sure that
their data can be replicated by others, is falsifiable, and reflects reality.
RESULTS
The final stage of the
scientific process calls for the rejection, acceptance, or modification of the
explanation based on an analysis of the data. During this process the scientist
takes many things into consideration: statistical significance, experimental
error, false positives and negatives, etc.
The power of science
resides within this final stage. The ability for science to progressively accumulate
knowledge that has been checked, tested, repeated, and verified separates it
from all other areas of knowing. Science knows when it is wrong and when it has
made a mistake, and the internal mechanisms of peer review etc. then move it
forward. This is what separates science from pseudoscience. Pseudoscience, like
homeopathy for example, does not incorporate new evidence and indeed proceeds
without it. Scientific evidence that clearly rejects the idea that homeopathy
could ever work is dismissed and forgotten by the proponents of pseudoscience.
This sort of thinking, without the checks and balances of science, then becomes
an unscientific form of knowledge, and is not reliable.
Science as a Way of
Thinking
Science, as a human
enterprise, is the most successful tool ever devised for explaining our
universe. It has passed the tests that other forms of thinking do not. This is
why science proceeds the way that it does, and why it is so powerful.
1. Invest
with forever in mind
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One piece of
advice Buffett has given Berkshire Hathaway's own investors can be applied
universally when the market seems expensive. In his 2014 letter to
shareholders, Buffett wrote: "Since I know of no way to reliably
predict market movements, I recommend that you purchase Berkshire sharesonlyif
you expect them to hold them for at least five years. Those who seek short-term
profits should look elsewhere."
In other words,
trying to time the market is a losing battle. Sure, the major market indexes
are close to record highs right now, but the Dow Jones could continue to
skyrocket to 20,000 just as easily as it could fall back to 17,000. We just
don't know what will come next.
Because of this,
while there is no guarantee of profit in the stock market, the best way to
position yourself to make money is to hold the stocks you buy for a long period
of time. I would even go so far as to recommend a minimum 10-year investment
time frame. There have been very few instances throughout history where the
overall stock market hasn't increased over any given 10-year period, and there
have beenno15-year
periods in which the overall market has declined.
In short, the
most surefire way to make money in the stock market is to buy rock-solid
companies and hold on -- the longer, the better.
2. Focus
on "wonderful business at a fair price"
Amazon
Here's one of my
all-time favorite Warren Buffett quotes: "It is far better to buy a
wonderful business at a fair price than a fair business at a wonderful
price."
This is
especially true when the market is expensive and the bargain bin is all but
empty. A rising market has never stopped Buffett and his stock pickers
from finding good values in the market. Most notably, Berkshire bought a
substantial amount ofApple stock in the first
quarter of 2016. It then added to that position in the second quarter after the
stock dipped nearly 20% on declining revenue and tepid third-quarter guidance.
Apple is one of the world's most valuable brand names, it has a dominant
presence in its core markets, and it trades for just 12.5 times TTM earnings.
Berkshire's stock pickers likely felt that Apple's long-term prospects far
outweighed these short-term challenges.
Phillips
66is another example of a stock Berkshire has been loading up on
recently. If you compare it with other oil stocks, Phillips 66 isn't the
cheapest. However, the company has a diverse revenue stream (some parts of the
company actually dobetter with low oil prices), a solid balance sheet, great management,
and afairvaluation.
The point here is
not that you should follow Berkshire into Apple or Phillips 66. Rather, it's
that you will rarely go wrong by purchasing stock in a rock-solid,
industry-leading business when it looks fairly (not cheaply) valued.
3. Build
your positions over time
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Dollar-cost averaging, a favorite practice of Buffett's mentor Benjamin Graham,
means investing a set dollar amount in the same investment at fixed intervals
over time. Basically, this leads you to buy more shares when prices are low and
fewer while prices are high. Buffett has said many times that the best way for
the majority of people to invest is to dollar-cost average into a low-cost
S&P 500 mutual fund. While I prefer buying individual stocks, dollar-cost
averaging works no matter what type of investment you're looking at.
Consider this
basic example. Let's say you have $20,000 to invest in a stock you like, which
currently trades for $100 per share. Instead of spending all your available
cash on shares right now, you spread it out over a year, purchasing $5,000
worth of shares each quarter. Here's how it pans out:
Quarter
Purchase
Price
Q1
$100
Q2
$105
Q3
$80
Q4
$85
In Q1, your
$5,000 would have gotten you 50 shares, but in Q3, you would have bagged 62
shares for the same amount, lowering your average purchase price. This is
a simplified example, because dollar-cost averaging typically involves spending
a smaller amount of money on a monthly basis over a period of years or decades.
But the same principle applies: Through simple math, dollar-cost averagingguaranteesyour
average cost per share will be lower than the average market price of the stock
at the times when you bought it.
As Graham once
said, "Such a policy will pay off ultimately, regardless of when it is
begun,providedthat it is adhered to conscientiously and courageously under all
intervening conditions." In other words, if the market looks expensive,
you still have to make your scheduled investment. The same goes for when
markets are crashing. To illustrate how this works, see another article in
which I show how someone who had averaged into Bank of America over the past 10
years would be sitting on a profit today, even though the stock itself has
fallen by nearly 70%.
From a long-term
perspective, the stock market is still attractive.
For all of the
reasons mentioned here, the stock market is still an attractive place to
invest. Sure, the fire-sale bargains of 2008 and 2009 aren't there anymore, but
from a long-term perspective, that doesn't matter too much. Stick to a smart
and consistent investment strategy no matter what the market is doing, and
you'll end up a winner over time.
1.The
practice of combining a positive outlook with critical thinking is called: Realistic optimism.
2.A
study by Taiwan National University found that this approach can increase
happiness and resilience. Individuals who apply realistic optimism will be
pragmatic about a certain obstacle, but find creative ways to overcome the
challenge.
3.The
most resilient people tend to avoid negative experiences: Negative
experiences help build resilience. Those who are most resilient have a healthy
positivity ratio — a system of weighing life’s victories against unpleasant
experiences.
4.Those
who handle adversity well view mistakes as: Mistakes can be seen as opportunities to learn and grow. In
fact, sometimes failure is necessary to experience success. Keeping this in
mind will help take the fear out of tackling new challenges.
5.Drinking beet juice may boost
endurance. A
study from the UK revealed that drinking two cups of beet juice before working
out increased endurance by 16 percent. The nitrates in the juice can increase
oxygen flow to muscles, providing more energy.
6.Which age groups have the
highest rate of bicycle deaths? 15-29 and 45 & up The Centers for Disease Control also
found that children and young adults aged 5-24 have the highest rates of
nonfatal bicycle injuries. Wearing a helmet and using proper hand signals can
help to avoid fatalities.
7.Which
of the following “feel-good” brain chemicals are released during exercise? Neurotransmitters Endocannabinoids Endorphins
All these chemicals may help with easing symptoms of depression. According to
Mayo Clinic, working out also
lowers immune system chemicals that could potentially make depression worse.
It’s a double whammy of benefits!
8.Often called “feel
good” hormones, what are endorphins? Neurotransmitters These neurotransmitters
are chemical messengers that help put pain in its place, make you feel better,
and cope with stress.
9.Which part of your body
produces the most endorphins? The pituitary gland, one of the star players in
your body’s hormone system, resides close to your brain and is responsible for
those zippy endorphins
10.Which foods can lead to
enhanced endorphin production? Chocolate and chili peppers as if chocolate and
chili peppers weren’t enticing enough, they can also augment the endorphins you
crank out. The hotter the chili pepper, the bigger the endorphin boost!
11.Endorphins are as addictive as painkillers. Your brain’s
receptors take in both endorphins and powerful opiate medicines to bring your
body relief from pain. However, it’s the medicinal varieties (think
heavy-hitters like codeine and morphine) that carry the risk of addiction.
Adapted from Michael J. Betty’s essay
entitled: “Thinking Quantitatively”,published in the book An Integrated Approach to
Communication Theory and Research.
1)
What is good about this?
2)
What is not perfect yet?
3)
What I am willing to do in order to get the way I want it?
4)
What am I willing to no longer do, in order to have the things the way I want?
5) How
can I do (that / what) is Necessary to get this job done and enjoy the process?
It's what everyone who's ever surfed the Web dreams of-just
stick a web site up there and watch the cash roll in! Well, that just doesn't
happen overnight, but the fact of the matter is it's really not very hard to
do. To do it right, start by picking a subject matter you know a lot about. Then
get a domain and create a web site. It doesn't even matter what technology you
use-just be totally anal-retentive about it looking good and provide plenty of
original content. Now find some appropriate affiliate programs-that's where
your revenues are going to come from. Next, learn everything you can about search engine marketing and promote the
heck out of your site. Last of all, set aside time every week to put new
content on the site, delete dead links, and other maintenance. Now do this
three or four times, and you've chosen your topics well, you might actually
have some decent income from it.
Getting into
consulting is relatively simple. All you have to do is know how to do something
better than most people do, and be able to either teach people how to do it or
be willing to do it for them. Networking is the key to success in this
business, so start by making a list of everyone you know and giving them all a
call.
Spend the $20 on: $14 on a box of clean-edge laser or inkjet business cards
and $6 buying your first prospect a cup of coffee one morning.
3.
Housesitter / Petsitter
Particularly since
9/11, people feel an increased need for security, and housesitting gives them
some reassurance while they're out of town. This one's great because it
basically requires no particular skills, just trustworthiness and reliability.
Be sure to have personal references available, and you'll also need reliable
transportation. If you're an animal lover, petsitting is an easy add-on.
Spend the $20 on: $2 on flyers to put up on bulletin boards, and the rest on
classified ads in your local neighborhood paper (not a big city-wide one).
4.
Professional Organizer
People these days are simply overwhelmed by
their "stuff". While there is an ever-growing trend of people wanting
to simplify their lives, most of us haven't done it yet. It's not that people
really have no clue how to get organized, it just keeps moving to the bottom of
the stack, both figuratively and literally. There's a prime opportunity for
people to come in at a reasonable rate and get houses organized. And while
there is a National
Association of Professional Organizers that you can join when you're ready,
mostly it takes common sense, organizational skills, and a familiarity with
what can be had at your local office supply and The
Container Store.
Spend the $20 on: Classified ads.
5.
Avon Independent Sales Representative
Cosmetics is a virtually recession-proof
business,
because it's an inexpensive way for people to feel good about themselves. Avon
is the largest consumer direct sales company in the world, with annual sales of
nearly $6 billion. In business for well over 100 years, they have both a highly
reputable product line and one of the few highly reputable multi-level
marketing structures (in fact, they invented it). They also offer fashion and
wellness products in addition to their beauty products. And while they bill
themselves as "The Company for Women", a fairly substantial number of
men have actually been very successful as Avon reps. The secret to making a
living at it rather than just a little extra spending money? Build your
downline-just like with any other network
marketing or
direct selling business.
Spend the $20 on: $10 signup fee, and $10 on brochures and a few samples.
6.
Personal Services - Shopping & Errands
This is a great one
going into the holiday season. Believe it or not, there are people who wouldn't
be caught dead going anywhere near a mall, but they're not comfortable with
buying certain items online, either. Again, trustworthiness and dependability
are the key traits for this. If your car's not reliable, pick something else.
Also, you won't need cash, but you'll need available credit on your credit
cards, since you really can't use theirs.
Consider an American
Express or a Diner's Club that don't have preset spending limits. Or use a card
that gives cash back reward or frequent flyer miles, and you'll make a nice
little bonus for yourself.
Spend the $20 on: $1 on flyers and the rest on classified ads.
7.
Desktop Publishing
It's amazing how many people have a computer and still don't know
how to make a decent flyer! If you've got a good design sense, are extremely
familiar with your word processor, and already have a laser or
high-quality inkjet printer, you can get into desktop publishing. Create a really
great-looking portfolio for yourself and go door-to-door.
Spend the $20 on: Some high-quality paper to create your samples
on.
8.
Tutoring
With the growing
dissatisfaction with our education system and the huge growth in homeschooling,
there's an unprecedented need for tutors these days for kids of all ages-even
adults! If you've got a topic you can tutor in, contact the local schools,
particularly private ones, and local homeschool groups, and offer your
services.
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Don't be concerned if
your topic is highly specialized-even those are in demand.
Spend the $20 on: $14 on a box of clean-edge laser or inkjet business cards
and $6 on flyers.
9.
eBay Seller
Yes, there really are people who make a decent living buying
things at garage sales and flea markets and selling them on eBay.
The big secrets? Stick to products you know (or learn before you start)
extremely well, package your goods carefully, and provide impeccable customer
service. It helps to have a digital camera or a scanner, but it's not required.
Spend the $20 on: Your first inventory at a garage sale.
10.
Secretarial Service - Typing / Transcription / Proofreading
Many small businesses
and individuals have a need for these services, but not enough need to hire a
temp through an agency. Assuming you've got a computer, a printer, and e-mail
(and the necessary skills), you're all set. Be prepared to charge by the job,
not by the hour.
Spend the $20 on: $14 on a box of clean-edge laser or inkjet business cards
and $6 on flyers.
One last thing-beware of
home-based business scams that require a substantial buy-in, such as
envelope-stuffing or craft item assembly. You may not lose money on it if you
stick with it long enough to get really fast at it, but you'll probably never
make the kind of money you're expecting to. Better to do something on your own
I do not consider myself a negative person much less a
victim of life! I am very sad, because I
think I was born in the wrong time. That is a FACT, at least I sold that
fact to myself.
I am a person who believes in an honest relationship;
and since I have use of reason in this life. It has been quite the opposite! If
I return the time of my past life, my mother’s life was take in my childhood, I always thought that humans
have to rely on each other, especially
in relationships. I asked my husband in a moment of doubt and panic, why?? And
his answer was, and who you think you are? Why do you think it will not happen to you! The pain of soul and body
and it felt great during my childhood, my adolescence, and now.
After searching the answers in all the places that I could
found; there is nothing either good and negative.
Without going into detail, in the church in other people, liquor, cigarettes or
tobacco in, super natural persons etc. After the most humiliating response from
my husband. Decide not worth trusting another person, nor your feelings and
emotions, unless your life! Today boot all the emotions and feelings.
Not that I want to trust! nor my feelings and emotions
, except my life! Today boot all the emotions and feelings. I feel like it
ceases to exist , there must be another way the existing.
For Real! a person is so dishonest ! that lie! That
makes so much damage to the person you are lying, if you thought you knew maybe
like me. I now no longer exists. Stop will exist in a world that the only thing
I met was:
I was met till now and I'm not willing to continue
NEVER EVER WAS :
sadness,
disappointment
abuse
losses
lying
losses
betrayals
his is generally not single men or women.
Men who betray their wives !.
women who betray their husbands .
other married women seeking married men.
men looking for
married women.
WHAT IS THIS WORLD THAT CAN NOT CONFIEAR IN nobodies
AND STEP AND
STEP destroy CHILDREN 'S LIFE THAT MATTERS! PLEASURE IS BETTER ! BUT THE
GENERATION OF THESE CHILDREN ARE DAMAGED , BUT THAT THESE PEOPLE DO NOT SOBE ,
DOES NOT CARE , OR HAVE IDEA!
What you'll do ? good for starters I think I need to
move as soon as this idea that this is normal!
The gift of life can be a challenging one. To overcome
the difficulties we encounter, we rely on our inner strength, on the strength
of those who love us, and on the power of realizations, understandings and
knowledge. These are all steps on our journey to continue progressing as
human beings. Enjoy these words. They may point out the next steps.
I do not consider myself a negative person much
less a victim of life! I am very sad, because I think I was born in the wrong time. That is a FACT; at least I
sold that fact to myself.
I
am a person who believes in an honest relationship; and since I have use of
reason in this life. It has been quite the opposite! If I return the time of my
past life, my mother’s life was taken in my childhood; I always thought that
humans have to rely on each other, especially in relationships. I asked my
husband in a moment of doubt and panic, why??
And
his answer was, and who you think you are? Why do you think it will not happen
to you! The pain of soul and body and it felt great during my childhood, my
adolescence, and now.
After
searching the answers in all the places that I could found; there is nothing both
good and negative. Without going into detail, in the church in other people,
liquor, cigarettes or tobacco in, super natural persons etc. After the most
humiliating response from my husband. Decide not worth trusting another person,
nor your feelings and emotions, unless your life! Today boot all the emotions
and feelings.
Not
that I want to trust! Nor my feelings and emotions, except my life! Today boot
all the emotions and feelings. I feel like it ceases to exist, there must be
another way the existing.
For Real! A person is so dishonest! Those
lie! That makes so much damage to the person you are lying, if you thought you
knew maybe like me. I now no longer exist. Stop will exist in a world that the
only thing I met was:
I was met till now and I'm
not willing to continue NEVER EVER WAS:
Sadness,
Disappointment
Abuse
Losses
Lying
Losses
Betrayals
Manue:
His
is generally not single men or women.
Men
who betray their wives!
Women
who betray their husbands.
Other
married women seeking married men.
Men looking for married women.
WHAT ARE WE DOING IN THIS WORLD ?
YOU MAY
NOT RELY ON nobodies !.
We are
awhen peror than animals, and aciendo look bad animals.
Here are the results:
STEP by STEP destroy LIVES OF CHILDREN WHO are
the future !
that MATTER ?
PLEASURE IS BETTER your daughters and sons !
But the
generation of these children is damaged ,!
does not
care , nor have idea!
What can we do for you ? Well, for starters , I
think I have to move as soon as this thought this is normal!
Excessive use of computer games among young people in China appears to be taking an alarming turn and may have particular relevance for American parents whose children spend many hours a day focused on electronic screens. The documentary “Web Junkie,” to be shown next Monday on PBS, highlights the tragic effects on teenagers who become hooked on video games, playing for dozens of hours at a time often without breaks to eat, sleep or even use the bathroom. Many come to view the real world as fake.
Chinese doctors consider this phenomenon a clinical disorder and have established rehabilitation centers where afflicted youngsters are confined for months of sometimes draconian therapy, completely isolated from all media, the effectiveness of which remains to be demonstrated.
While Internet addiction is not yet considered a clinical diagnosis here, there’s no question that American youths are plugged in and tuned out of “live” action for many more hours of the day than experts consider healthy for normal development. And it starts early, often with preverbal toddlers handed their parents’ cellphones and tablets to entertain themselves when they should be observing the world around them and interacting with their caregivers.
In its 2013 policy statement on “Children, Adolescents, and the Media,” the American Academy of Pediatrics cited these shocking statistics from a Kaiser Family Foundation study in 2010: “The average 8- to 10-year-old spends nearly eight hours a day with a variety of different media, and older children and teenagers spend more than 11 hours per day.” Television, long a popular “babysitter,” remains the dominant medium, but computers, tablets and cellphones are gradually taking over.
“Many parents seem to have few rules about use of media by their children and adolescents,” the academy stated, and two-thirds of those questioned in the Kaiser study said their parents had no rules about how much time the youngsters spent with media.
Parents, grateful for ways to calm disruptive children and keep them from interrupting their own screen activities, seem to be unaware of the potential harm from so much time spent in the virtual world.
“We’re throwing screens at children all day long, giving them distractions rather than teaching them how to self-soothe, to calm themselves down,” said Catherine Steiner-Adair, a Harvard-affiliated clinical psychologist and author of the best-selling book “The Big Disconnect: Protecting Childhood and Family Relationships in the Digital Age.”
Before age 2, children should not be exposed to any electronic media, the pediatrics academy maintains, because “a child’s brain develops rapidly during these first years, and young children learn best by interacting with people, not screens.” Older children and teenagers should spend no more than one or two hours a day with entertainment media, preferably with high-quality content, and spend more free time playing outdoors, reading, doing hobbies and “using their imaginations in free play,” the academy recommends.
Heavy use of electronic media can have significant negative effects on children’s behavior, health and school performance. Those who watch a lot of simulated violence, common in many popular video games, can become immune to it, more inclined to act violently themselves and less likely to behave empathetically, said Dimitri A. Christakis of the Seattle Children’s Research Institute.
In preparing an honors thesis at the University of Rhode Island, Kristina E. Hatch asked children about their favorite video games. A fourth-grader cited “Call of Duty: Black Ops,” because “there’s zombies in it, and you get to kill them with guns and there’s violence … I like blood and violence.”
Teenagers who spend a lot of time playing violent video games or watching violent shows on television have been found to be more aggressive and more likely to fight with their peers and argue with their teachers, according to a study in the Journal of Youth and Adolescence.
Schoolwork can suffer when media time infringes on reading and studying. And the sedentary nature of most electronic involvement — along with televised ads for high-calorie fare — can foster the unhealthy weights already epidemic among the nation’s youth.
Two of my grandsons, ages 10 and 13, seem destined to suffer some of the negative effects of video-game overuse. The 10-year-old gets up half an hour earlier on school days to play computer games, and he and his brother stay plugged into their hand-held devices on the ride to and from school. “There’s no conversation anymore,” said their grandfather, who often picks them up. When the family dines out, the boys use their devices before the meal arrives and as soon as they finish eating.
“If kids are allowed to play ‘Candy Crush’ on the way to school, the car ride will be quiet, but that’s not what kids need,” Dr. Steiner-Adair said in an interview. “They need time to daydream, deal with anxieties, process their thoughts and share them with parents, who can provide reassurance.”
Technology is a poor substitute for personal interaction.
Out in public, Dr. Steiner-Adair added, “children have to know that life is fine off the screen. It’s interesting and good to be curious about other people, to learn how to listen. It teaches them social and emotional intelligence, which is critical for success in life.”
Children who are heavy users of electronics may become adept at multitasking, but they can lose the ability to focus on what is most important, a trait critical to the deep thought and problem solving needed for many jobs and other endeavors later in life.
Texting looms as the next national epidemic, with half of teenagers sending 50 or more text messages a day and those aged 13 through 17 averaging 3,364 texts a month, Amanda Lenhart of the Pew Research Center found in a 2012 study. An earlier Pew study found that teenagers send an average of 34 texts a night after they get into bed, adding to the sleep deprivation so common and harmful to them. And as Ms. Hatch pointed out, “as children have more of their communication through electronic media, and less of it face to face, they begin to feel more lonely and depressed.”
There can be physical consequences, too. Children can develop pain in their fingers and wrists, narrowed blood vessels in their eyes (the long-term consequences of which are unknown), and neck and back pain from being slumped over their phones, tablets and computers.
This is the first of two columns on electronic media use by children and adolescents. Next week: Parents’ role in children’s use of electronics.
